The d*ck pick. A picture of a man’s member sent (more often than not) to an unsuspecting woman. The truth is more than half of the men sending these unsolicited d*ck pics are not getting laid. They are not dating, and they aren’t getting any closer to getting into a sexual relationship by doing so. In fact, they are pushing women away by sharing their d*ck pics without consent. Let’s get into why your d*ck pics are not for everyone and how you can learn to send them when they are actually wanted. Take it from a Sexpert. I know when a man is being desperate and when a man is being sexy and, more often than not pics scream the former.
The Digital D*ck Pic Origin Story
To understand anything you must understand it’s history first. Oh wait… we’re talking about dic pics. I digress, there is no hard (pun intended) history on the beginning of the d*ck pic. However, I can tell you when it became most popular and part of our everyday vernaculars. That year was 2016. Check out the graph below to see how there’s been a huge spike in Google search results for dick pics in or recent history.
Since the early 2000’s d*ck pics popularity has only increased in growth. However, something happened in 2016 to make it rise to record highs. What that is no one really knows. All we know is that since 2016 d*ck pics have been on the rise with no signs of slowing down. Yet your statistics of getting some have continued to drop incrementally. Millennials for example are the generation currently having the least sex compared to decades previous to them. Your dic pics are not helping this statistic.
Why Don’t These Pics Work?
Here is the thing, when you send a pic it never guarantees sex. Why? Because, the person who you are sending the pic to is not even there! It’s that simple. If you want sex, don’t send a d*ck pic because that doesn’t get you anywhere closer to having it. Did you know that sending an unsolicited dick pic is also a form of sexual harassment? Do you really think that sending pics gets you closer to the ultimate goal of sexual gratification now? As you can see from the chart above are now a dime a dozen. Your d*ck isn’t any more special than anyone else’s online or in text. You won’t be the first to send a pic to a woman and you won’t be the last either. This puts you, my friend, at a stalemate. Women know these pics are not made especially for us, it feels like you’re recycling your member upon us simply trying to catch bait. I don’t know if you knew this but, fishing isn’t sex. We can smell that fishy desperation from miles away when you send us your d*ck pics.
Is There A Better Way Than Sending D*ck Pics?
Absolutely! That is why I’m here today. To spread the good gospel about the wonderful ways you can court a woman into bed that do not involve sending an unsolicited dick pic. Here are a few key ways you can step up your male sexuality game.
Chivalry: You’re a straight male. Act like one. Chivalry is not dead and being courteous does not pre-date humanity in the millenia. Even the kinkiest of woman who enjoy hardcore fetish acts equally enjoy be treated with kindess and consideration. You will be hard-pressed to find a woman who openly claims to enjoy being treated like an object and not a human being. Try asking questions about what turns us on before expecting to get yours. Get into our heads before you expect us to look at yours (pun fully intended here fellas). It’s all mental for women, the opposite of how you think. If you can make us feel considered we are ten times more likely to consider hopping on your dick.
Communication & Open-Mindedness: Even if you fall on the more Vanilla side of sexuality and sex play you can still keep an open mind to new experiences. Women love a man who is sexually secure enough to explore different areas together. When you’re not afraid of sharing what your secret kinks or turn-on may be with a woman it makes us more inclined to find out what you may be like sexually. If you can arouse our mind then you can have our body.
Sexting: By far the best way to get into a woman’s mind you desire is by letting her know exactly what you want to do with her if she consents to your advances. Sexting is such a perfect way to get to know each other. You’ll learn more about who you want to sleep with and vice versa. This makes sure you are both on the same page sexually and heightens sexual chemistry before you even have sex. No d pics needed! Mental stimulation and visualization is key to a steamy sexting session together.
If by the end of this you are still itching to send that pic out then you have an exhibitionism fetish. In which case you should head over to Arousr where you can sex chat with an expert in cock ratings and approval without judgment.
About the Author
I’m Femme Fatale, Fetish model, and Alpha Tamer. I have a vast knowledge and affinity for Fetish culture. You can find me every week writing for Arousr and if you’re lucky you might even see me available to chat online about your favorite kinks! My favorite fetish is Domination.
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